Not What We Expected

What do you do when God doesn’t show up the way you expected? In this powerful look at John 11:17-37, we step into the raw emotion of loss, the tension of waiting, and the surprising response of Jesus, who doesn’t just fix the situation but enters into the pain. As Martha wrestles with belief, Mary grieves openly, and Jesus weeps, we’re confronted with a question that cuts deeper than surface-level faith: Do you really believe? Not just in theory, but in a way that shapes how you trust, live, and respond when life feels uncertain.

Group Discussion Questions:

1. In John 11, we see both deep faith and deep grief. What stands out to you most about how Martha, Mary, and Jesus each respond to Lazarus’ death?

2. The shortest verse in the Bible says, “Jesus wept.” What does this reveal about the heart of Jesus, and how does it shape the way you view Him in your own pain or struggles?

3. Jesus says, “I am the resurrection and the life… Do you believe this?” Where do you relate most right now: confident belief like Martha, or lingering doubt like the crowd? Why?

4. The sermon described belief as more than mental agreement. It’s embracing and trusting Jesus. What is one area of your life where it’s hard for you to fully trust Jesus right now (waiting, grief, uncertainty, etc.)?

5. If you truly lived this week believing that Jesus is the resurrection and the life, how would it change your actions, attitudes, or decisions?