Our words reveal the condition of our hearts, carrying either the power to build others up or to tear them down. God calls us to replace unwholesome speech with words that are helpful, timely, and full of grace Rather than allowing bitterness to grow into anger, we are invited to let Christ's forgiveness transform our hearts so that kindness, compassion, and forgiveness shape the way we communicate with others.

Group discussion questions:

1. What is the one point that stood out to you most from this week's message from Clarke?

2. Read Ephesians 4:29-32, and then think about your conversations over the past week. Can you think of a situation where it was hard to speak words of life that would build up the other person?

3. Read Matthew 12:33-37 Unfortunately our words reveal what's in our hearts. What heart issue (bitterness, pride, impatience, fear, the need to be right, etc.) do you see showing up in your life that needs to be dealt with?

4. Reflect a bit on the high price that Jesus paid on the cross to purchase our forgiveness. How should that affect how we respond to someone who has hurt, frustrated, or disappointed you? Forgiveness might seem impossible, but Jesus' words are pretty clear in Matthew 6:14-15 on what He expects of us.

5. This week, if you find yourself in a difficult conversation, try practicing the steps Clarke talked about by pausing and asking these three questions:

• Is what I'm about to say helpful?

• Is it what this person needs right now?

• Will it build them up?